Dilemma
Here it goes:
1) Is "losing something" benefits?
2) If it is, does it benefit you, or benefit the others?
3) If it isn’t, is "owning something" benefits?
4) Are you willing to lose something very important, which will affect you for a lifetime?
5) What if the thing you are going to lose, will benefit the others (in your own perception) but hurt you?
6) What again if you just feel that you are going to lose it, but actually not (without your notice)?
7) And finally what if your prediction (that you will lose it) is accurate?
I have to decide.
And Loong taught me: "Don’t regret after making decision".
However, my answers are:
1) Don’t know.
2) I don’t know.
3) I really don’t know.
4) I really don’t know this.
5) I really don’t know this at all.
6) I really don’t even know this at all.
7) I really don’t even wish to know this at all.
What should I do?
I am in dilemma…
Haiz… Wishing these questions will be solved as soon as possible. Perhaps tomorrow.
June 4th, 2007 at 12:58 am
perhaps u should think in a different perception, losing something means gaining something in return. Albeit not immediately, you should look forward to it, and not cling to the past.
Sometimes letting things go help. You’ll never know, the things you let go might wanna return to you some day, but whether if ur willing to take it back, now thats a totally different story.
June 4th, 2007 at 3:49 am
To Nickeo III:
Yea, I told myself to let go, and this really calm my mind.
Thanks for your support!
By the way, it has been ages since your last comment liao…. ^_^
June 4th, 2007 at 4:15 pm
well said, nic… you can’t have everything and please everyone. like i have said, in your case, there are no definite rights and wrongs. in the end it just boils down to how you’re gonna deal with the “aftermath” of your decision later… hehe, and i don’t think you hadn’t known those answers. just some earching will do the trick yea?
good luck again…
loong
June 5th, 2007 at 12:43 am
To The Lil Prince:
Thanks ya. I have solved this problem already. Anyway I wonder if it will come again…
I will try my best! Thanks again!
June 5th, 2007 at 9:31 am
hmm..wat should i say here ler??nic n ‘lil prince’ ad finish advising liao..=b
PS,tho wat happen..
must jia you o!!!^_^
June 5th, 2007 at 9:15 pm
To ‘aGnEs -li ee-:
Ok, thanks ya!
June 6th, 2007 at 7:14 am
hohohoho, what kind of comment was that la, li ee? ey, and u already lama tak update ur blog le, agnes
June 6th, 2007 at 7:33 am
Yea, Agnes you really not update your blog for long time already leh, our neck already very long waiting for your new post leh.