Tit-bits for your break…

It has been already a trend in all of the people who know me, friends and teachers inclusive… No matter what, there must be a popular comment:

"Park Soon, you think too much already."

There are advices, some more are even in lecture form. However, I just don’t know why I can’t stop this bad habit. "Think a lot" may be envied by some as they will always say: "Wah, I don’t even have a thought on this leh, this idea is really creative man!" However, this is only a small part, mostly it goes this way: "Well, you think too much already, things won’t happen this way, even there’s possibility, it’s too small!"

Even I received such lectures since very young (since primary I think), I seems like not bother them at all. In my view it’s nothing bad to think so much, so why shouldn’t I think of them, just filter out those irrelavant stuffs after thinking, is there any problem?

But I just realised there ARE problemS, recently, from a close friend.

Yea, I really think too much in everything. Sometimes we should try to make things easier and be optimistic. KISS (Keep it short and simple) does not seem to be existing in my mind, although Henry always emphasis on it. I tend to think too much, especially on the bad side. This causes people to be resentful on me. And really thanks to this close friend, I will try my very best to KISS, to maintain our relationship.

Great thing does not depend on quantity, but on quality.

That’s what I finally realised.

Here it goes:

1) Is "losing something" benefits?

2) If it is, does it benefit you, or benefit the others?

3) If it isn’t, is "owning something" benefits?

4) Are you willing to lose something very important, which will affect you for a lifetime?

5) What if the thing you are going to lose, will benefit the others (in your own perception) but hurt you?

6) What again if you just feel that you are going to lose it, but actually not (without your notice)?

7) And finally what if your prediction (that you will lose it) is accurate?

I have to decide.

And Loong taught me: "Don’t regret after making decision".

However, my answers are:

1) Don’t know.

2) I don’t know.

3) I really don’t know.

4) I really don’t know this.

5) I really don’t know this at all.

6) I really don’t even know this at all.

7) I really don’t even wish to know this at all.

What should I do?

I am in dilemma…

Haiz… Wishing these questions will be solved as soon as possible. Perhaps tomorrow.